[BRAND NEW edit!] There is now a Sex+++ FAQ! It will hopefully answer any questions you might have. Also, it will help you start your own sex-positive film series, should you be so inclined! [end of edit]
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SEX POSITIVE
pro-SEX, pro-QUEER, pro-KINK
a free documentary film series for people who like sex
curated by Clarisse Thorn
+ Read the Press Release for a description of the film series and discussion group!
+ Join our Google Groups mailing list to receive updates!
+ Join our Facebook group, and invite all your friends!
+ Want to volunteer to help out? Join our volunteer mailing list!
June 2009: Okay, I said I had confirmed the film list before, but I had to make one last change — the September 8th night is now a movie about an intersex activist! The list is definitely final now, though, for real. Because I am going to Africa very soon, the discussion facilitation will be done by some of our stalwart regular attendees — you can see their names under the films — and regular Sex+++ blogging will be taken over by Arvan over at SexGenderBody.com. And even though I’m going, the film series could still use sponsors! Go ahead and email Lisa Junkin at the Hull-House Museum if you can offer any support.
~ Clarisse
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OFFICIAL FILM LIST
YOU ARE ENCOURAGED TO RSVP BY PHONE TO HULL-HOUSE MUSEUM FOR EACH FILM: 312.413.5353. If you RSVP, we’ll save you a seat — and if the venue fills up, you’ll definitely be able to attend! In other words, RSVPs are not required, but they’re in your interest. Please note that we unsave seats at 7PM.
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JANUARY 27: “Kinsey” (2005)
Assesses famous sexologist Alfred Kinsey’s remarkable achievements, while examining how his personal life shaped his career.
+ Read the followup blog post!
FEBRUARY 10: “Sex Positive” (2008)
Starting in the 1970s, unflinchingly tracks the progress of gay activist Richard Berkowitz as he went from cocky S&M hustler, to angry AIDS activist, to broken but proud harbinger of a message too volatile, scary and true to be heard.
+ Read the followup blog post — including a comment from Berkowitz himself!
+ Read my interview with Richard Berkowitz!
FEBRUARY 24: “When Two Won’t Do” (2002)
Made by a polyamorous filmmaker, this film explores the alternatives — illicit affairs, swinging and polyamory — to a traditional monogamous relationship.
+ Read the followup blog post!
MARCH 10: “BDSM: It’s Not What You Think!” (2008) + “Leather” (1995) + “Cut & Paste” (2007)
#1: Confronts the stigma and stereotypes surrounding kink and fetish play through leading voices within the BDSM community.
#2: Members of the leather community discuss the freedom that surrender can provide, the trust implicit in the activity, and the quasi-religious ritual it can attain.
#3: Personal documentary that explores the historical contexts of race, gender identity and sexual agency.
+ Read the followup blog post!
MARCH 24: “Doin’ It: Sex, Disability & Videotape” (2008) + “Orgasmic Women: 13 Selfloving Divas” (2005)
#1: Tags along on a date between a woman with a disability and her able-bodied boyfriend, exploring their relationship issues over a candle-lit dinner.
#2: A rare gift of intimacy, a spirited sharing of erotic practices and a document of women’s authentic orgasms.
+ Read the followup blog post!
APRIL 14: “Bi The Way” (2008)
Attacks bisexuality from several angles: wondering if anyone is actually equally attracted to both sexes, if bisexuality even means that you’re equally attracted to both sexes, and asking ourselves … is everyone bi?
+ Read the followup blog post!
APRIL 28: “It’s Still Elementary” (2008)
Examines the incredible impact of the 1996 film “It’s Elementary”, which aimed to teach kids about LGBTQ issues. Follows up with teachers and students featured in the first film to see how those lessons changed their lives.
+ Read the followup blog post!
MAY 12: “Private Dicks: Men Exposed” (1999) + “Forever Bottom” (1999)
#1: Interspersed with clips from vintage sex education films and humorous cartoons, men — young and old, gay and straight, large and small, virgin and porn star — offer personal revelations that are honest, humorous and often poignant. Discussion ranges over puberty, power, impotence, circumcision, sexuality, myths and perceptions, growing old, and, of course, size.
#2: A clever look at the stigma attached to being on the receiving end in gay male relationships.
+ Read the followup blog post!
MAY 26: “The Aggressives” (2005)
Butcher than butch, these dykes of color have coined a new term to define their identity: Aggressive. Identifying as women, but looking and acting like men, from their haircuts to their suits to their swaggering behavior, the Aggressives have powerful personalities that buck traditional societal restrictions on women’s roles.
+ Read the followup blog post!
JUNE 9: “Boy I Am” (2006)
A look at the experiences of three young Female-to-Male transpeople addresses the way conversations about trans issues can run into resistance from the many queer women who view transitioning as a “trend” or as an anti-feminist act that taps into male privilege.
+ Read the followup blog post!
JUNE 23: “On The Downlow” (2007)
Creates a portrait of Cleveland’s underground black gay scene including coming out to one’s parents; black homophobia; and the persisting rumor that only gay people spread AIDS.
+ Guest facilitator: Lisa Junkin, Education Coordinator at Hull-House Museum
JULY 14: “Filming Desire” (2000)
Female directors talk about the reality of an explicit women’s point of view, the desire in their films to “fantasize and dream a new image of themselves”, and how their depictions of sexuality and relationships are correctives.
+ Guest facilitator: Aspasia Bonasera, blogger at La Libertine’s Salon
JULY 28: “Hot & Bothered: Feminist Pornography” (2003) + “Bill and Desiree: Love is Timeless” (2008)
#1: A rare and empowering look into the pornography industry and feminist community to see how they intertwine within the politics and poetics of female sexuality.
#2: One of Comstock Films’ award-winning erotic documentary films about real couples having real sex. Bill and Desiree’s story starts in the second half of life: a chance meeting, a powerful attraction, a carnal connection, and a deep, sensual love. Pleasure is ageless, and love is indeed timeless!
+ Guest facilitator: Serpent Libertine, vlogger at Red Light District: Chicago
AUGUST 11: “Liberty In Restraint” (2005)
Profiling the life of fetish photographer Noel Graydon, this film gives Graydon’s perspective on the BDSM community, describes some BDSM practices, and shows how he creates his photographs.
+ Guest facilitator: Balthasaar
AUGUST 25: “Equality U” (2008)
Follows a group of 33 young activists on the Soulforce Equality Ride, a first of its kind, two-month, cross-country tour to confront antigay discrimination policies at 19 conservative religious and military colleges. While most of the young Riders identify as Christian, not all of them do so in the same way, if at all.
+ Guest facilitator: David M.
SEPTEMBER 8: “Yellow for Hermaphrodites: Mani’s Story” (2003)
Intersex activist Mani Bruce Mitchell tells her poignant story of growing up in rural New Zealand. Subjected to genital surgeries at an early age, Mani takes viewers through her life, discussing both the difficult times she considered suicide and her path to healing, reconciliations, and service.
+ Guest facilitator: Ben Graham
SEPTEMBER 22: “Queens of Heart” (2006) + “All Women Are Equal” (1971)
#1: The first psychological study of drag performance, set in the oldest surviving female impersonation club in the United States, shows how the work of drag requires a deep understanding of human psychology.
#2: We see Paula, an early 1970s transperson, fixing her make-up and discussing the difficulty of living as a woman and meeting other transpeople. Offers incredible insights into both the time and Paula’s individual psyche.
+ Guest facilitator: Rae Wright, from the Illinois Caucus for Adolescent Health
OCTOBER 13: “We Are Dad” (2005)
Two white HIV-negative gay men have a family of five kids. Four of the kids have AIDS, three are black, two come from a backwater cult in Oregon, and one of the children has been in the middle of one of the most hotly debated issues in this country: gay adoption.
+ Guest facilitator: Steve C.
SEX +++ FILM SERIES
2nd & 4th Tuesdays at 7PM
beginning January 27, 2009
Jane Addams Hull-House Museum
800 South Halsted
312.413.5353
FREE
All are welcome!
Hull-House Museum is wheelchair accessible. To request accessibility accommodations, please call the museum two weeks prior to the event.
This series is supported by …
CHICAGO SPONSORS:
+ Early to Bed Feminist Sex Toys
+ Women and Children First Feminist Bookstore
+ Galleria Domain Two: The Center for Expressive Roleplay
+ Illinois Caucus for Adolescent Health
+ Polyamory Weekly Podcast
+ Comstock Films: Real People, Real Life, Real Sex
+ EdenFantasys SexIs Online Magazine
+ We’re seeking more Chicago sponsors — please get in touch if you’re interested!
CHICAGO PARTNERS:
+ Center on Halsted: Chicago’s LGBT Community Center
+ Sex Workers Outreach Project, Chicago Chapter
+ SexGenderBody.com
+ Creativefilth.com
FILMMAKERS AND FILM RESOURCES:
+ Picture This Productions
+ Erin Palmquist, filmmaker
+ Seventh Art Releasing
+ Sensory Image Pty, Ltd.
+ Cinema Libre Studio
+ Women Make Movies
+ Sam Feder, filmmaker
+ Beyondmedia Education
+ Regent Releasing
+ Indie Pictures
+ Marianna Beck, filmmaker
+ Comstock Films
+ Becky Goldberg, filmmaker
+ Frameline Distribution
+ Accord Alliance
For more information, contact Clarisse Thorn: clarisse dot thorn at gmail dot com.
Holy shit I am in awe!
Comment by Danny — January 16, 2009 @ 1:01 am
:laugh: I’m kind of in awe too. Just watch me pull this off!
Comment by Clarisse — January 16, 2009 @ 9:07 am
[...] The series premiere — Tuesday, January 27th at 7PM — will feature the acclaimed documentary “Kinsey” (not the feature film with Liam Neeson). After that, we’ll spice up every second and fourth Tuesday by screening another documentary with a positive, informative spin on human sexuality. The series will showcase diverse experiences, orientations, and choices — planned films cover bisexuality, S&M, polyamory, transpeople, homosexuality, heterosexuality, the history of sex, and so much more. The full proposed film list is available here. [...]
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Pingback by Sex Positive Film Festival Starts Tuesday January 27 « Sex Workers Outreach Project - SWOP-CHICAGO — January 22, 2009 @ 8:37 pm
“Attacks bisexuality from several angles”
As a closeted bi, attacked from several angles is both the perfect choice of words and a very unfortunate choice of words.
Comment by Bi? — January 26, 2009 @ 6:07 pm
Great list but I’m surprised to see no films from Comstock Films included – I know of no other documenatries that would more closely match your desire to screen films that present a positive, informative spin on human sexuality and love.
Good luck with your program!
Comment by Ell — January 30, 2009 @ 7:38 am
@ Ell: I’ve been all over the Comstock Films website and watched one of their movies. I wouldn’t exactly characterize their usual stuff as “documentary”. :grin: Which isn’t to say I don’t support what they’re doing — just that I don’t think it’s right for this series. I am seriously considering shifting things around a bit and screening the feminist porn documentary “Hot and Bothered“, though.
Comment by Clarisse — January 30, 2009 @ 8:49 am
Hey it’s your program Clarisse :) but I do know several well respected film festival directors have included the Comstock Films in their documentary programming and one of the films took a “Best Documentary” prize at a festival.
“of a movie, a television or radio program, or photography) using pictures or interviews with people involved in real events to provide a factual record or report”
Cheers
Ell
Comment by Ell — January 30, 2009 @ 9:27 am
@ Ell: Wow, that’s fascinating. I can’t decide how I feel about it, actually. On the one hand, it’s really cool that Comstock Films productions are taking prizes at festivals. On the other hand, I find it sort of depressing that they have to be labeled “documentary” in order to succeed. See what I’m saying? I mean, I’ve always called Comstock Films features “porn”, although now that I check their website again I see that they call themselves “documentary fims”.
I guess the point I’m trying to make is that I would rather people tried to legitimize porn, than that they made interesting porn but called it documentary.
At any rate, while I can get away with a lot in programming this series, it is still going up at an academic institution and I am already screening some pretty radical material. Now that I’m thinking about it more, I do believe you’re right that it would be cool to screen a Comstock Films feature as a documentary, but man … that would be really pushing the envelope. I’ll think about it some more and talk to the Hull-House Museum people. Thanks for the suggestion!
Comment by Clarisse — January 30, 2009 @ 9:43 am
Clarisse,
Please don’t depressed. As a sex-positive, pro-sex, pro-queer, pro-kink person, I’m sure you understand that people have the fundamental right to identify as they think best suites them and to name that identity as they see fit. I am a filmmaker. I make documentary films; erotic documentaries in the case of the work in question. The people appearing in my films are (documentary) subjects. If it pleases you to call our films something else, that’s certainly your right, but please don’t suggest that you are “depressed” because we’re not doing what you wish we would do to serve your agenda.
I am glad to hear you are reconsidering the inclusion of one or another of our films in your series. After all, what could be more appropriate for a sex-positive film documentary film series that films that document the importance and pleasure of the sexual bond between loving and committed couples; depicted with all the frankness, candor and beauty that is a part of any healthy sexual relationship!
None the less, I understand your concern about the venue (in fact, those concern speak volumes to the difficulty that filmmakers face in trying to create and then have seen by the public, films that treat sexuality as a legitimate subject matter for artistic inquiry.) My experience is that academic institutions are often more able to understand and evaluate the bone fides of artwork than the work itself. In the hopes of helping you make your case for the inclusion of one or more of our films in your series I have appended below a list of the various film festivals, awards, and other recognition that our films have received in both the cinematic, educational and therapeutic community.
Thanks again for your consideration!
Yours,
TC
BILL AND DESIREE: LOVE IS TIMELESS (December 2008)
Official Selection, 2009 Amsterdam Erotic Film Festival
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
ASHLEY AND KISHA: FINDING THE RIGHT FIT (July 2007)
Winner, Best Foreign Film, 2007 Melbourne Underground Film Festival
Winner, Best Foreign Director, 2007 Melbourne Underground Film Festival
Official Selection, 2007 Long Beach LGBT Film Festival, Long Beach, CA
Official Selection, 2007 Out on Film LGBT Film Festival, Atlanta, GA
Official Selection, 2008 Tel Aviv LGBT Film Festival
Official Selection, 2009 Lesbian Cinema Arts Program, NYC LGBT Center
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Used in Planned Parenthood Outreach Programs
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
MATT AND KHYM: BETTER THAN EVER (January 2007)
Official Selection, 2009 Amsterdam Erotic Film Festival
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Used in Planned Parenthood Outreach Programs
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
DAMON AND HUNTER: DOING IT TOGETHER (May 2006)
Winner Best Documentary, 2006 Melbourne Underground Film Festival, Melbourne Australia
Official Selection, 2006 QueerDOC Film Festival, Sydney Australia
Official Selection, 2006 CineKink Film Festival, New York
Official Selection, 2007 Outtakes Gay & Lesbian Film Festival, New Zealand
Official Selection, 2008 Tel Aviv LGBT Film Festival
Official Selection, 2009 Amsterdam Erotic Film Festival
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Used in Planned Parenthood Outreach Programs
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
Used in Gay Mens Health Crisis Outreach Programs.
XANA AND DAX: WHEN OPPOSITES ATTRACT (May 2005)
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Used in Planned Parenthood Outreach Programs
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
MARIE AND JACK: A HARDCORE LOVE STORY (October 2002)
Best of the Fest, 2002 Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Sexual Health and Pleasure Film Festival, Los Angeles
Best Overall, 2002 SinCine Film Festival, New York
Best Documentary, 2002 SinCine Film Festival, New York
Held in the Kinsey Institute Library at the University of Indiana
Used in Planned Parenthood Outreach Programs
Held in the San Francisco Sex Information Hotline Library
Comment by Tony Comstock — January 30, 2009 @ 2:04 pm
Yikes, Tony! It sounds like I offended you, and I’m really sorry. I always thought that you considered yourself a pornographer. When I first started looking into Comstock Films about a year ago, I read a bunch of interviews and blog posts that — I thought — said that you were intending to make porn movies that would work against the dominant porn paradigm.
With that in mind, I assumed that you “had to” rename your films “documentaries” in order to gain acceptability. Does that make sense? That’s why I was bothered — I thought that you considered yourself a pornographer but that you were forced to use the “documentary filmmaker” label in order to legitimize your work.
Of course, if you consider yourself a documentary filmmaker and have thought of yourself that way all along, then this is my mistake! I certainly wouldn’t want to label you or your films in a way that you find objectionable. Nor was I trying to co-opt your films into my “agenda”. Honestly, I am just happy knowing that Comstock FIlms is out there — whether you call your movies documentaries or porn.
OK, that’s a lot of words just to get across one point, which was: I’m sorry it seemed like I was renaming your films to suit my agenda. That wasn’t my intent.
I will consult with Hull-House and I’ll get in touch if we can include Comstock Films material.
Comment by Clarisse — January 30, 2009 @ 2:31 pm
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No, no offense taken!
My feelings about porn/pornography started off ambivalent and have moved to antipathy; partly because of what I’ve learn about the “porn industry” over the years, partly because it keeps the people who would most like to see our films from seeing them. With your indulgence, links to a few blog posts:
http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony/2005/01/27/the-first-post/
http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony/2005/06/30/whats-in-a-name/
http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony/2008/11/23/forced-into-googles-sex-ghetto-kicking-and-screaming/
Comment by Tony Comstock — January 30, 2009 @ 6:17 pm
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I’m so sad to have only just learned about this! Hopefully if it happens again, I’ll hear sooner.
Comment by Kitty — July 10, 2009 @ 11:11 am